Resources for special events. 

Where should the dance floor go?

One of the most common mistakes at any event is placing the DJ away from the dance floor.  There are two reasons this is a horrible, no good, very bad idea. For starters you want to have loudest area in the room be the dance floor not the area where guests are seated. Placing the DJ and speakers at the edge of the dance floor ensures that this happens.  Additionally, for a DJ to properly read the crowd they have to keep an eye on the dancers and an ear on the volume. Again this is best done from the edge of the dance floor. 


Good Floor Plan



Make a check list with all of the following to avoid surprises at your event!  

Have a plan and stick with it. Events are highly choreographed behind the scenes.  Lots of people are working together to make them flawless. The best time for changing details is in the months, weeks and days ahead of time not in the seconds before hand. 

- Use Google Docs for planning and working with all vendors. With a shared timeline and other vital details everyone can stay on the same page, quite literally. With everyone using a shared document you can cut down on unnecessary emails and for once the photographers can have the timeline ahead of time.  

- Avoid "Dance Sets" with a DJ. These only make sense with live bands that need to take breaks.  Let the DJ build up the energy and take people on a seamless musical journey - that's what they do.   

- Whose wedding is it anyway? To put it another way, too many chefs spoil the broth, a camel is a horse designed by committee, three's a crowd... If you are not saying I DO then chances are it’s not your wedding and the music should reflect that.

- Break events into simple logical blocks such as: drinking, followed by eating, followed by toasts, followed by dancing.  The more complicated the event the less likely it will work as planned.  Keep in mind that each time you start or stop a large group of people from doing anything it can add 5 to 15 chaotic minutes to the timeline and zaps momentum.  

- Food is the anchor of the timeline. Food is hot when it's hot and it takes a certain amount of time to feed people and for them to eat. If you don't leave a little wiggle room for dinner in the timeline you run the risk of cold food and rushing what should be a relaxed portion of the event. 

- Some venues look good and some sound good. Rooms made with marble, glass, stone, square shapes, domed ceilings, low ceilings and without any absorbing material often sound bad when you add large numbers of people and music. If you are using a space that fits this description add absorbing materials like heavy drapes or thicker table cloths to help the room from sounding shrill.

- Can you control the lighting? Are there dimmers or light switches you are allowed to turn on and off?

- Sparklersfog machines are usually not allowed and often set off fire alarms or even the sprinkler systems! Find out ahead of time.

- How loud can your event be? Establish how loud your event can be and what time the music needs to be cut off.  Some venues have shockingly restrictive rules about this. 

- Which areas can you use and which are open to the public

- Do all vendors have the same floor plan and timeline?

- Is there an electrical outlet where you need it? Does it work? 

- What is the rain plan

- Avoid having guests sitting or standing outdoors in the hot sun, trust me. People fainting during ceremonies in the hot sun is not as uncommon as you might think. 

- If you don't have enough seating for all of your guests, have enough tall tables for everyone to stand and eat at.  

- Is someone from the venue there to help if something goes wrong?

- Is there parking for vendors and guests who can't move their vehicle? 

Planners who get it:

Bella Notte

Capitol Romance

Engaging Affairs

DC Day Of DCdayOf (at) (Chelsea is a day of coordinator who really gets it - don't let the lack of a website fool you)

Photographers you want to work with:

Anthony Poff Photography

BowTie Photo

By Asa Photography

Duhon Photography

Jessica Roberts Photography

Ken Pak Photography

Procopio Photography

Roey Yohai Photography

Stephen Gosling

Timmester Photography

Victoria Selman

Wolfcrest Photography

Videographers to capture it all:

A Smooth Wedding

BG Video

Monachetti Weddings

Shutter And Sound Wedding Cinematography

Florists who will amaze you:

Atelier Ashley Flowers

Sweet Root Village

Production companies for events:


Bond Events

Elegance & Simplicity, INC.

Encore Decor Inc

Event Revolution

Nomad Events

Syzygy Events

Event furniture & necessities:

Party Rentals LTD

Something Vintage Rentals

Venues with something special (ask us why we love these venues):

Airlie - Warrenton, VA

American Visionary Art Museum - Baltimore, MD

Arts Club of Washington - Washington, DC

Atrium at Meadowlark Botanical Gardens, Vienna, VA

Baltimore Museum of Art - Baltimore, MD

Chesapeake Bay Beach Club, Stevensville, MD

Clarendon Ballroom - Clarendon, VA

Comet Ping Pong - Washington, DC (Recommended Vendor)

Decatur House on Lafayette Square - Washington, DC 

Eastern Market's North Hall - Washington, DC  (Recommended Vendor)

Evergreen Museum & Library  - Baltimore, MD

Ghibellina - Washington, DC. (Recommended Vendor)

Glen Echo Park - Glen Echo, MD (Recommended Vendor)

Josephine Butler Parks Center - Washington, DC (Recommended Vendor) 

Khimaira Farm - Luray, VA

Long View Gallery - Washington, DC

Oxon Hill Manor,  Oxon Hill, MD

Riverside On The Potomac - Leesburg, VA

Strong Mansion - Dickerson, MD

The Loft at 600 F - Washington, DC (Recommended Vendor)

The Mayflower Hotel - Washington, DC

The Ritz-Carlton, Georgetown - Washington, DC

Thorpewood - Thurmont, MD

Torpedo Factory Art Center - Alexandria, VA

Woodend Sanctuary and Mansion - Chevy Case, MD